The L Word

So, you have this guy, and he has turned your world upside down. You head down this interminable path that spirals down, to your true feelings. Then you have two options, either you are left completely despondent or you can let the fantasy impel you to keep trying.

Yes, you are head over heels because this guy, with just an affable smile, is rocking your world and you feel like he is the only reason you wake up every morning. Just for the hope that he will come by and visit you. You talk to him every day –and every day he will say sweet things to you; but you never know if he really means it unless he really shows it. There is the tricky part.

If you choose to not put yourself in the line, this will haunt you forever because you will never know what it could have been. What if nothing ever happens? You might give yourself a tirade, but hey, at least you tried. Also, what if you are now a very happy couple? Congratulations! You are now with the guy that is not amiss. Those are the two sides of the coin, but what if you are in the middle?

There’s a catch to that right there, anything can happen. You can go from loving him to abhoring him. Flaws also come out, he might have irascible behavior or maybe he is reclusive person. You also find his good qualities like how profound his character is. Stuck in the middle, there isn’t much you can do. There is the moment that you extricate yourself if you weren’t that serious about him. See if you can get out this circle. If you really can't get of this, then you know that he is your reason or being, without really realizing his character has grown into you. He has managed to get under your skin.

You have to go to an incredibly sage person that is going through the same as you or has gone through it. This person tells you that it is imperative to wait for the moment that is right for both of you. Still with uneasy disposition, you agree. Now the question is: when will that moment come? There is nothing left to do but have faith and sit back, relax and enjoy the ride.